Paper is more patient than man.
Anne Frank
I’m unaware of what prompted the 13-year-old girl, Anne Frank, to write this. But I wholeheartedly agree with her idea.
When you speak to others, you have numerous questions that make you wonder when and what you should say,
like whether the other person understands what I’m saying, what if the person doesn’t think about what was said, what if what I’ve said was misinterpreted by the other person, what if the other person judges me based on what I think, what if my words unintentionally hurt the other person, or what if the other person doesn’t want to lend me an ear at all in the first place.
What if the other person does not value my opinion? What if the other person refuses to speak up when I need their opinion on what I am discussing? What if the other person isn’t willing to be my friend and help me find a solution?
When you write on paper, you can answer all of these questions. When you write it down, your mind assists you in finding the way out. Words become your friend, who is infinitely more patient than any human.
There is no regret, guilt, or overthinking about what could have been right or wrong in what you said. There is no need to get afraid of being judged; befriend your pen, words, and paper because they will stick with you forever and never leave you because of your mistakes.
Those who write have a lifelong friend who is always available, heals, and consoles them when they are in need.
I dont know why almost everyone speaks only about gratitude journaling, but in my opinion, written words always have a healing effect that is way more effective than anything.
But if Anne Frank lived now in this digital era, she would have added a few paragraphs to her dear diary.
She would have replaced the pen with a keyboard and paper with a digital notepad, no doubt about it.
She would have said that now, the little device in our hands had caged us like never before, and she would have hoped for a world with more human conversations or wanted to fill up a lofty diary than she did many years ago. I dont know.
But if I ever get a chance to meet her in another world. This statement of hers would be my conversation starter.
My post for today is a dedication to everyone who finds comfort in written words.
Whether you are a writer or a reader, be proud of yourself as you know how to befriend your words, as it is no less than a superpower.
And what having an eternal love for your words could not do for you. If you are looking to befriend words and get better with them, The Diary of Anne Frank is my book recommendation, for I believe,
When you speak, there’s much to fear,
The doubts and worries are always near.
But with paper, those doubts will cease,
And you’ll find a sense of peace.
It’s a self-made self-help guide,
that leads you through the darkest ride
like the brightest ray of glowing light, It offers a way out right.
A knight that offers you its hand,
to comfort you and help you stand.
As if you were its helping hand,
It aids you in growing and building your brand.
This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Bohemian Bibliophile.
This post is part of the Bookish League blog hop hosted by Bohemian Bibliophile.
These lines make it so complete! “But with paper, those doubts will cease,
And you’ll find a sense of peace.” I really enjoy writing with an ink pen on paper. I am planning to gift myself some handmade paper, earlier I would write on that and it felt so good. Nothing beats the blues more than the written word.
Thanks, dear. I was really waiting for the first comment as I followed a free-form writing style for this blogpost.
Haha, we all find comfort in words, that’s why we are here. 😉 No wonder, most of ur genuine writers are at peace with life. Because we write and let it all out.
Anne Frank is a painful teardrop on the cheek of human history.
Agreed totally
‘What if what I’ve said was misinterpreted by the other person’, ‘What if my words unintentionally hurt the other person’. I’m mostly haunted by these two from the questions you listed that we our minds go through when we speak to others. Thank you for making me feel proud of being both a reader and a writer. Loved these lines from your little poem ‘It’s a self-made self-help guide’ and ‘A knight that offers you its hand. As if you were its helping hand, It aids you in growing and building your brand. Your words in this post were a balm on my soul, Sivaranjini. Thank you
Wow, I loved this article, and I couldn’t agree more with you. Words are powerful, and when you write with those words , you can actually conquer the world. When we speak, we are sometimes not able to express our thoughts for various reasons, but when we write, our thoughts become our place to express them.
You are right. Words are more powerful than any person. I always have this question what if my words hurt other and no wonder many times it was misinterpreted too. But still they are their opinion and not mine. Still I love to write. It heals me.
Such a true sentiment – and even though a screen has taken place of paper and a keyboard the place of pen, the truth remains the same – words can heal, can comfort, can be your friend. Btw I also still love to hand write – take out my fountain pen for that!
Indeed words are your best friends and it is a superpower to find comfort in words but to also offer comfort to others through words.
This piece beautifully captures the power of written words as a source of solace and companionship. Anne Frank’s quote, “Paper is more patient than man,” resonates deeply, highlighting the unique ability of writing to offer a safe space for expression without fear of judgment or misunderstanding. Thanks for sharing this thoughtful reflection!
What a beautiful post. I whole heartedly agree with you, when I cannot express verbally I put it in words. It not only conveys my feelings and thoughts in clarity but also gives me a release of feel-good endorphins. ‘The Diary of Anne Frank’ is a an amazing book narrating the plight of the jews through the eyes of a teen.
I loved the last bit of poetry Sivaranjini… n it is so true. I read The Diary of Anne Frank eons ago n remember that it was quite influential to my young mind. I have tried to coax my daughters to reading it but futile. When we used pen n paper, I used to speak to my diary too but these days I don’t anymore. Wonder y I left the habit.
There is no doubt that we all find comfort in words and tahts the reason we are here. Whether we’re a writer or reader, it’s cool that we can make friends with words – it’s like having a superpower. The Diary of Anne Frank, sounds like it’s good for making you feel better when things are tough. Thanks for sharing that uplifting message.
This article is fantastic, and I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments. Words hold immense power, capable of conquering the world when wielded thoughtfully. While speaking may sometimes fail to convey our thoughts adequately, writing provides a sanctuary for our expressions. It’s no wonder my blog is named Wordsmith.
It’s true that when we speak to others, there’s a constant barrage of questions and concerns swirling in our minds, clouding our ability to express ourselves fully and authentically. But when we put pen to paper, something magical happens. The act of writing allows us to untangle our thoughts, find clarity amidst the chaos, and articulate our feelings with precision and depth. Words become our steadfast companions, guiding us through the labyrinth of our emotions and experiences.
Ah, such beautiful lines for the community! Yes, writing is a superpower and a blessing. To be able to hold a pen and let your feelings and thoughts flow is indeed empowering and cathartic and sometimes revolutionary too.
Writing is something that gives me a high. That feeling of not being judged to let out that flow of thoughts is unmatched. What lovely choice of words and it’s truly a knight.
Reading this brought a smile to my face… i love reading about words, writing, diaries,… you get the drift.. and id love to be an audience to your conversation with Anne 🙂
I’ve always found comfort in the written word and find it therapeutic. Although the way we jot down our thoughts has changed with time, the emotion remains the same.
I agree with your concept of writing on paper. Whenever we write on paper, it has no grudges and peacefully accepts how and whatever we write.
I love The Diary of a Young Girl! I read it quite early on and you’ve reminded me that I really want to give it another re-read, hehe.
I am a very articulate person. Expression ( mostly by writing) is my love language. Yes, I can totally feel being in love with words.
I tried to read Anne Frank’s book but it is was so difficult knowing what happened to her. For a lot of people, writing is therapy. and for some of us reading is.
I have never succeeded in keeping a journal though my blog’s name is Adi’s Journal. I don’t do journaling in it’s traditional sense. Most of the times, what a pen puts down on paper for me are my poems. But I do agree with you that if you put your thoughts to paper, it feels significantly different!
I remember when I started journaling I used to write daily without any purpose and then just like that I found the purpose of writing. So, whenever I am in doubt or whenever I can’t express my anger, I look for my journal and I pour my heart into it, it instantly uplifts my mood, many times I find the answers too.
Recently a friend pointed out that as someone who overthinks alot, maybe my mode of expression and love is words. Writing on paper does help to filter our own minds. Good piece 👍🏻 Thank you for sharing
Love that line by Anne Frank. Words can definitely be a forever friend
Aftet reading you post I felt like humming that song by Backstreet Boys, ‘words and words are all I have to take your heart way’. Jokes apart writing what your feel is like a divine power that we human has and people who are good at it can live in peace.
We as Writers, words are always our best friends. We enable the flow of our minds and hearts. Love how you made the outline of this post.
I am forever the paper-pen woman who chooses to write even in today’s world.
I’d never thought about this. Bu after reading your post, I agree with what you have to say. Words wouldn’t judge us like other people do. Written words are always better than their spoken cousins.
This is such a lovely post. The fact that paper doesn’t judge us or our words, makes it our friend, no?
Words truly are powerful, and journaling — the old fashioned way for me! — is one of the best ways for us to find our own way through the fog.
‘Paper is more patient than man.’ What a powerful statement that was made by Anne Frank. In a way, it ditches the humans boasting about the heights of their achievements against a lifeless piece of paper simply because it can hold onto its bosom the words, the utterances of the human mind without being judged. I hope we will not face a day when the market announces the effect of banishing papers aiming for more profit in making everything digital.
The poem 🥹🥹🤌🏻. As soon as I read Anne Frank’s quote at the beginning of your post, I thought the EXACT same words as how you started your post. I love that I’m not alone in loving the solitude, freedoms and expression that comes with the written word 🥹
Finding solace in written words is a universal experience, as they have the power to soothe, inspire, and connect us with others across time and space. Whether it’s through literature, poetry, personal journals, or even messages shared with loved ones, written words have a unique ability to touch hearts and minds. Your dedication honors this profound connection and celebrates the power of language to bring comfort and understanding to our lives.
Words give my life meaning. I look to words for comfort, to feel better, to learn, and as reminders.
I like how you started with a quote from Anne Frank. I wasn’t sure what to expect from this post after reading the title but it turned out to be quite a delight. And indeed words are our superpower!
Writing and reading are life boats for introverts. As you said, those who keep the company of words enjoy peace.
Well penned. The words we write can be our survivors if we take out all our weaknesses and strengths on paper. The poem is completely apt to its name. Loved it!
There’s something so special about the act of writing, isn’t there? It’s like pouring your heart out onto paper, knowing that it will always be there to listen, to comfort, and to guide you.
In today’s digital age, where technology permeates every aspect of our lives, Anne Frank’s words take on new relevance, underscoring the importance of preserving the art of handwritten communication in a world dominated by screens and keyboards.
its also something we found solace in loneliness . Words have been love since I learned to read the newspaper at 7. It was magical. I also love the time I would pick up the newspaper the moment I got up. A lovely habit I love about myself.
“Those who write have a lifelong friend who is always available, heals, and consoles them when they are in need.”
Totally agree!
I haven’t read this book, but enjoyed reading your nice and relatable piece.
Your positivity is contagious, creating an uplifting atmosphere in the workplace.
I don’t consider myself a writer per se. I do journal a lot and completely agree with you about that bit of writing. Writing or reading, words are therapy.
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Truer words were never said… Writing is indeed very cathartic.
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